Relationships
Start with boundaries, then choose an action
Before focusing on whether someone else will change, clarify what you can and cannot take on.
By Prism · Published
Separate facts from feelings
Distinguish what happened, how you feel, what was promised, and what remains an assumption. A hexagram cannot verify a suspicion.
Consider the cost of speaking up
If a conversation could put you under severe pressure or at risk, prioritize support, safe distance, and ways to get help.
Make the next step manageable
Try writing down a boundary, arranging a conversation, pausing an argument, or seeking support from someone you trust.
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